If you’re asking for advice but you already know the answer, trust yourself.  You have all the answers, inside you, already.  You know what’s best.  Try this: Tell the people you would normally look to for advice what you’re thinking, and ask for support.  Waiting for advice and hoping they offer that which you already are thinking invites disaster.  You are your own best advisor.  There’s no expert as expert as you, especially on the topic of “you.”